Choosing someone to photograph you in lingerie isn't like hiring a plumber. You're trusting someone with something deeply personal. Beyond portfolios and pricing, what actually matters? Experience that goes beyond "I also do boudoir"—because wedding photography and boudoir are completely different skills. A vibe that puts you at ease, because your comfort shows in every image. And privacy protocols that protect your intimate photos. Here's what to look for when finding your boudoir photographer.